THEY WERE EXPIRED

Romans chapter 12










Today we are walking in: They Were Expired














Habakkuk 1:11




Then shall his mind change H2015, and he shall pass over, and offend, imputing this his power unto his god.










CHANGE






















Today we look to the word- CHANGE- H2015- haphak- a primitive root; to turn about or over; by implication, to change, overturn, return, pervert:—become, change, come, be converted, give, make (a bed), overthrow overturn), perverse, retire, tumble, turn (again, aside, back, to the contrary, every way).




























The Torah Testifies…………….










Genesis 35:2




Then Jacob said unto his household, and to all that werewith him, Put away the strange gods that are among you, and be clean, and change H2015 your garments:




Leviticus 27:10




He shall not alter it, nor change H2015 it, a good for a bad, or a bad for a good: and if he shall at all change H2015 beast for beast, then it and the exchange thereof shall be holy.







Leviticus 27:33




He shall not search whether it be good or bad, neither shall he change H2015 it: and if he change H2015 it at all, then both it and the change H2015 thereof shall be holy; it shall not be redeemed.




























The Prophets Proclaim………







Jeremiah 2:36




Why gaddest thou about so much to change H2015 thy way? thou also shalt be ashamed of Egypt, as thou wast ashamed of Assyria.










Zechariah 3:4




And he answered and spake unto those that stood before him, saying, Take away the filthy garments from him. And unto him he said, Behold, I have caused thine iniquity to pass from thee, and I will clothe thee with change H2015 of raiment.










Malachi 3:6




For I am the LORD, I change H2015 not; therefore ye sons of Jacob are not consumed.






















The Writings witness……………







Job 14:14




If a man die, shall he live again? all the days of my appointed time will I wait, till my change H2015 come.










Psalm 102:26




They shall perish, but thou shalt endure: yea, all of them shall wax old like a garment; as a vesture shalt thou change H2015 them, and they shall be changed:










Proverbs 24:21




My son, fear thou the LORD and the king: and meddle not with them that are given to change H2015:


















They were expired! you cannot step into your next season with yesterday‘s mindset. Yah is renewing your thinking because your capacity must match your calling Romans 12 says be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Transformation is not about relocation. It’s about revelation! you can change cities and still remain the same person! if your mind remains unrenewed, but when your mind is renewed, even in the same place, everything changes! you begin to perceive differently pray differently, plan differently! you stop reacting to life and start governing it. You stop waiting for a favor and start walking in it. This is the level where faith becomes your default language! you stop doubting whether Yah will do it because you know he already has! you start walking as one who understands that time does not limit Yah! it reveals his timing. You stop chasing signs and start becoming one. The chosen ones are not impressed by miracles. They are instruments of miracles citizens of Yah what’s coming next will not require your striving! it will require your resting! Because Grace works best in surrender. You don’t have to push doors open. They will open because of who sent you! you don’t have to beg for acceptance you are already seated with Yahusha in heavenly places, Ephesians 2:6 you don’t have to fight to be seen! your light Will announce you! when the season is right and when you walk into rooms this time you’ll notice something! The same atmosphere that used to intimidate you! will now celebrate you because you’re not walking in as who you were, you’re walking in, as who Yah made you to be, you carry presence! you carry authority! you carry peace that confuses the enemy! the chosen ones don’t have to shout to be known! their spirit speaks before they open their mouth. That’s why Yah had to isolate you before he elevated you isolation is heaven‘s classroom for revelation! While you thought you were alone Yah was downloading strategies, visions, and instructions. He was pruning you for purpose! you were not being punished you were being positioned! you had to be hidden so that what he placed in you could mature! fruit cannot ripen in constant exposure. It needs quiet, stillness, and protection! And now you are ready. The oil has settled! the roots have deepen! the word has taken form in your spirit, you have been prepared for such a time. This is the same anointing that kept Esther in hiding is now bringing her before the king the same spirit that concealed Moses in the basket is now commissioning him to lead deliverance, the same Yah who silenced Joseph in prison is now calling him to interpret dreams in the palace! you are about to move from preparation to presentation And when Yah presents you, no one can ignore you! because divine timing is louder than human effort! proverbs 18:16 says a man’s gift make a room for him and bring him before great men. Your gift has been refined. Your heart has been purified. Your motives have been sanctified. You are no longer chasing opportunity opportunity will start chasing you, but be careful not to forget where you came from! the chosen ones carry humility as a mantle! you will rise, but you will remain low before Yah! you will walk in favor, but you will walk in fear of Yah you will possess abundance, but you will remember that it is he who gives you the power to get wealth Deuteronomy the more he exalts you the more you must decrease in self and increase in surrender. This is how you preserve the oil. This is how you remain in divine flow Because success is not the reward of faithfulness. It is the responsibility of stewardship. Yah doesn’t bless you so you can boast he blesses you so you can build! he doesn’t anoint you so you can impress! he anoints you so you can impact! beloved everything you went through was training for trust! Every closed door taught discernment! every delay taught patients! every loss taught dependence! and now the Holy Spirit is releasing divine confidence into your spirit you will speak, and things will shift! you will pray and atmospheres will respond. You will walk into chaos and peace will manifest because the authority of the chosen is not in their words, but in their intimacy with the word! this is why Yahusha said in John 15:7 if you abide me and my words abide in you ask whatever you wish and it shall be done unto you. Obedience is the secret! the chosen ones don’t visit his presence they live in it. That’s why your future is secure. You are not merely surviving anymore. You are reigning. You are not enduring storms. You are commanding seasons! you are not waiting for miracles. You are walking and perpetual manifestation. Congratulations. It’s done. The old season has closed! the warfare that once defined your nights has been silenced by divine decree! the pain that once stole your joy has become fuel for your destiny. You are no longer who you were when the trial began! You are stronger! You are deeper anchored and more dangerous to hell than ever before! the chosen ones are rising, not to be seen, but to be sent! you will never have to go through that again not because life will spare you, but because Grace will sustain you! not because trials will end, but because they no longer have the power to control your peace! The chosen ones have learned to sing in prison! to praise in fire! to trust in silence! you’ve learned the rhythm of heaven you’ve become the evidence of endurance. You’ve become the sound of victory, and now beloved The Ruach of Yah is stirring your heart to believe again! you have walked through valleys that silence your laughter through nights that questioned your faith, but now the Dawn has come the light you see is not the reflection of the old season. It is the first gleam of the new season! for the word it says in Isaiah 61 arise shine for daylight is come, and the glory of the Lord is risen upon! You are not waiting for light anymore. The light has found you! the glory is not coming. It is resting upon you. You are standing in the fulfillment of what you once only prayed about when Yah says arise. He does not merely call you to stand. He calls you to transform your posture. The posture of defeat must give way to the posture of dominion! the posture of survival must give way to the posture of Sonship. You are not a beggar at heavens gate you are an hire seated with Yahusha. That is why the enemy tried so hard to convince you that you were disqualified! he feared the day you would remember who you are because identity is the key to authority! Adam fell not because he didn’t have authority! The serpent convinced him of who he was not!

UNDERSTANDING THE WOMAN'S EMOTIONAL NEEDS

Genesis chapter 2




Today we are walking in: Understanding The Woman's Emotional Needs




Today we look to the word LOVE --H157 - 'ahab --a primitive root; to have affection for:—be loved, lovely, like, friend.






The Torah testifies.........……




Exodus 20:6

And shewing mercy unto thousands of them that love H157 me, and keep my commandments.




Deuteronomy 6:5

And thou shalt love H157 the Lord thy God with all thine heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy might.









The prophets proclaim..................




Joshua 23:11

Take good heed therefore unto yourselves, that ye love H157 the Lord your God.





Micah 6:8

He hath shewed thee, O man, what is good; and what doth the Lord require of thee, but to do justly, and to love H157 mercy, and to walk humbly with thy God?











The writings bear witness............




Proverbs 17: 9

He that covereth a transgression seeketh love H157; but he that repeateth a matter separateth very friends.











Did you know that a woman has twice as many nerve endings in her skin as a man does? Because her nerves are more numerous; they are also more susceptible to being “strained.” Her skin is almost literally wired to receive a loving husband’s touches of affection to soothe her frayed nerves and calm her emotions.




This physiological fact highlights the theme for this chapter: a woman’s emotional and sexual needs are different from a man’s by design. I want the idea of Yah’s purpose and design to permeate your thinking about the relationship between females and males, because it is such a fundamental principle, has so many applications, and is crucial to understanding the differences between them.




Here are some of the major differences between men and women:





Women tend to take things to heart; men tend to take things impersonally.


In material things, women tend to look at the goals; men want to know how to get there.


In spiritual or intangible things, the opposite is true. Men look at the goals; women want to know how to get there.


Women are like computers; their minds keep processing in the background until a problem is solved. Men are like filing cabinets. They take problems, put them in the file, and close the drawer.


A woman’s home is an extension of her personality; a man’s job is an extension of his personality.


Women have a great need for security and roots; men can be nomadic.


Women tend to be guilt-prone; men tend to be resentful.


Women are constantly changing; men level off and stay the same.


Women tend to become involved with things more easily and more quickly; men tend to stand back and evaluate.




Considering these differences, in addition to the others we’ve discussed throughout this series, we shouldn’t wonder why men and women have misunderstandings and conflicts in their relationships!




Remember one of our primary principles? Purpose determines design (or nature), and design determines needs. The above differences are related to the specific designs of women and men. Their designs, in turn, determine the needs of each that need to be met in order for them to be fulfilled, contented, and living in Yah’s creation purposes.




The problem is that many people are not fully aware of their own needs, let alone the needs of others. Over the past twenty years, I have been counseling couples, and the greatest problem I have seen is that husbands and wives don’t know that the needs of their spouses are different from their own.




Even when people are aware of their needs, they often live in frustration because their needs are not being met. They end up demanding that another person satisfy them or they suffer in silence, never expecting to live a completely fulfilled life.




In this teaching, I want to highlight three paramount needs of females and males that contribute to a fulfilling relationship. It is important for us to keep these needs centrally in mind as we interact with our spouses and others with whom we are in relationship. As we come to understand ourselves and others better, and how we can help to meet others’ needs, our hearts and minds will be renewed and more of Yah’s creation purposes will be restored to our lives.




Women and men must understand that fulfillment can come only when they work together to address one another’s needs. In this endeavour, Yahushas’ great principle, “It is more blessed to give than to receive” (Acts 20:35), is vital. As you give, meeting the needs of others, you will be blessed, and many of your own needs will be met in turn. Giving to others by satisfying their needs- not demanding to have your own needs satisfied- will bring true fulfillment.




A woman doesn’t just want love, she truly needs it by design.




Some of the ideas in this teaching we have discussed in other contexts, while other ideas are new. We must allow these principles to permeate our understanding so that they will become part of our lives. Please keep in mind that the needs that are listed as female needs and the needs that are listed as male needs are also the needs of both. However, in this teaching they will be discussed in the context of the primary needs of each. If we can learn and apply the following principles, we will go a long way to healing broken lives, promoting understanding, and developing strong relationships between women and men.




The Woman Needs Love




The primary need of the female-man is love. We have learned that the woman was designed to receive love. This truth is so central to a woman’s emotional needs that if it is the only one that men make a vast difference in women’s lives- and consequently in their own.




A woman doesn’t just want love, she truly needs it by design. This is why a man can give her a house and expensive gifts and she will still not feel satisfied. The man will say, “What’s wrong with you? I can’t do anything to please you. I’m giving you all these things, and you’re still unhappy.” She will answer, “It is not this mink coat or this house that I really want. I want you. I want you to tell me I’m important and special and unique to you, and that I am everything you’ve been dreaming of. I want you to tell me you love me.”




You can’t replace love. To love means to cherish, to care for, and to show affection. Cherishing a woman doesn’t mean buying her expensive presents; it means calling her several times a day and telling her that you love her.




Caring means that you go out of your way to make sure that she has everything she needs. It means dropping everything you’re doing just to make certain she is all right. Love doesn’t say, “I’m busy right now. I’ll talk to you later.” Caring is making other people wait while you meet the needs of your wife.




Affection is the environment in which to grow a wonderful marriage. A woman’s need for affection can be met with plenty of hugs and kisses; a steady flow of words, cards, and flowers; common courtesies; and meaningful gifts that show the man is thinking of her, esteems her, and values her presence in his life.




A man can also meet a woman’s need for love by providing her with financial security. This will make her feel cared for and protected. In addition, when a man spends time with a woman, it makes her feel loved because she knows she comes first in his life.




Balancing financial provision and quality time with his wife often creates the greatest challenge for a man because providing for his wife usually requires that he be away from her while he is at his workplace. However, when a man spends many hours’ overtime at his job trying to “get ahead” but neglects his wife (and family), she will not feel loved, even though they may have millions of dollars in the bank.




If a woman is single, receiving love is still her greatest need. She also needs affirmation and companionship of men. It is the way she is designed. Fathers, uncles, brothers, and male friends can recognize a single woman’s need and show brotherly love by acts of kindness, companionship, and assistance during life’s difficulties.




A Man Needs Honor




Because the female’s primary need is for love, she often thinks that the male’s primary need is for love, also. He needs love, but he has a need that is even greater than that.




As much as a woman needs to feel she is loved, a man needs to know he is honored.




If a female expresses love to a male, without fulfilling this other need, he might not respond in the way she expects him to. He might remain somewhat distant. For example, a woman may wonder why her husband doesn’t seem satisfied in the relationship when she has been lovingly trying to help him by keeping the household running smoothly and providing for his material needs. A woman might even write her husband love notes and give him lots of affection, but notice that he still doesn’t seem happy. She wonders, “What else can I do for this man?”




Yet a male feels about those things in the same way that a female feels about the male’s provision of a house. He is grateful that his material and emotional needs are being taken care of, and he appreciates his wife’s efforts. However, these things don’t address his primary need.




As much as a woman needs to feel that she is loved, a man needs to know that he is honored. Being honored is at the core of his self-esteem, and it affects every other area of his life. “Each one of you [husbands] also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must honor her husband” (Ephesians 5:33).




A woman can meet a man’s need for admiration and honor by understanding his value and achievements more than anyone else. She needs to remind him of his capabilities and help him to maintain his self-confidence. She should be proud of her husband, not out of duty, but as an expression of sincere admiration for the man with whom she has chosen to share her life.




Paralleling the situation of the single woman, a single man needs honor as much as a married man does. He needs the honor and affirmation of women because he is designed to need it. The women in a single man’s life can meet his needs by recognizing his value and accomplishments as a man and by encouraging him in his talents and life work.




A husband is to love and cherish his wife. A wife is to respect and honor her husband. In this way there will be a constant meeting of the other’s primary needs.




What Do I Do in the Meantime?




One of the problems a woman may face is that her husband doesn’t know he’s supposed to love her in the way I’ve just described. This is a very real problem. Even though a woman might be honoring and esteeming her husband, he might not be showing her love because he really doesn’t know how. Both men and women need to understand and meet each other’s needs. However, if the woman understands their needs but her spouse doesn’t, it is important that she have patience. She needs to respond to her husband according to what he knows.




If I know that a person is ignorant, I can’t be angry at them. Yahusha is the highest model of this for us. He said, “Father, forgive them, for they know not what they are doing” (Luke 23:34). The difficulty comes when you know that a person is aware of what he’s supposed to be doing but still doesn’t do it. In this case, some kind of reproof is necessary. Depending on the situation, a woman might appeal directly to her husband; or she might appeal to the pastor, a trusted Hebrew friend, or even a family member to speak to her husband for her. Yet her best appeal is to pray for her husband and allow The Most High to change him.




However, you can’t reprove an ignorant person. You can reprove a person who has knowledge, but you need to overlook the faults of a person who is ignorant. This will keep bitterness from taking over your heart. Avoid blaming the other person, live responsibility before Yah, and make sure you carry out your own responsibilities to your spouse. Trust Yah to teach your partner how to meet your needs.




The Woman Needs Conversation




In addition to love, a female needs conversation. She enjoys talking with others. This sounds so simple but it is a real need based on her nature. A woman needs to have a man talk with her. Notice that I said with her and not to her. Because males have a leadership mindset, sometimes their conversations with their wives amount to instructions rather than a give-and-take dialogue.




The man should always make a point to converse with the woman. Costly gifts doesn’t mean anything to a woman if the man just leaves them with her and then walks away. She’d rather have the conversation.




A man should show a desire to understand his wife, not change her.




The man can fulfill a woman’s need for intimate conversation by continually making a point to communicate with her. To truly meet her need, she should talk with her at the feeling level and not just the knowledge and information level. She needs him to listen to her attitudes about the events of her day with sensitivity, interest, and concern. All of his conversations with her should convey a desire to understand her, not change her. This means that he should not necessarily immediately try to solve her problems for her. He needs to resist the impulse to offer solutions and instead offer his full attention and understanding.




After giving her plenty of time to express her feelings , he should conduct his end of the conversation with courtesy and openness, looking her in the eyes and telling her what he really thinks and feels. He should share his plans and actions clearly and completely, because he regards himself as accountable to her, and ask for her input. This will enable her to trust him and feel secure.




Some men say, “What am I going to talk about with my wife?” They don’t realize that the woman has a need to express herself and therefore has much within her that she wants to share. A man can simply say, “What’s on your mind?” and she’ll usually have no problem carrying the conversation. All he has to say in response is, “Uh-huh. Oh, I see.” However, he has to make sure he is really listening!




A woman can create opportunities for conversing with her husband by developing an interest in his job, his activities, and his hobbies, such as sports, music, or computers. As much as the woman needs conversation, the man needs to share his interests with her. These related needs are a natural bridge of communication between them.




For example, if he’s in the middle of watching a ballgame, it would not be constructive to say, “Shut that thing off; I’m tired of this.” That won’t create an atmosphere for conversation but will usually cause tension. Instead, she can walk into the room in which he is watching television and say, with genuine interest, “Honey, they just caught that ball, and now they’re kicking it again. What are they doing that for?” The man will immediately start talking, because he likes to discuss his interests and pursuits.




Here is another illustration. If the woman goes into the room where the man is watching his favorite team compete and says, “I want to talk to you,” he will probably say, “Right after they finish this play.” When she comes back in a few minutes and says, “I said I want to talk to you,” he will answer, “Right after the next play.” This will likely continue throughout the entire game. Instead, a woman can say, “Sweetheart, I’d like to talk to you, but let’s watch this game together first. I want you to tell me everything about this game.” Now the woman has really succeeded, because the man is doing what he likes, but she has gotten him to talk about it, too. After the game, she will likely have his full attention in the matter about which she wanted to talk to him.




So, if women can get involved with men in their sport or any other interest they have, they can actually develop an atmosphere for conversation. Many women would truly be amazed at what would happen if they would learn to be interested in what their husbands are interested in.

THE SILENT TONGUE

The Silent Tongue




There is a time for everything,

and a season for every activity under heaven…

a time to be silent and a time to speak.

Ecclesiastes 3:1,7




I heard a story about a husband and wife who

were feuding and giving each other the silent treat-

ment. One night he realized he needed her to wake

him up at an early hour to catch a flight. Not wanting

to humble himself and be the first to break the silence, he left her a note to wake him at 5 A.M. The next morning he awakened to find out that he had overslept by a couple of hours and had missed his flight.




As he leaped out of bed to go and angrily confront

her, he noticed a piece of paper on his nightstand.

The note read, “It is 5 A.M. Wake up!”

Not all silence is golden. I have devoted the pre-

vious chapters to encourage you to abstain from var-

ious negative uses of the tongue. By now you may have concluded you will never be able to say more

than a few words for the rest of your life if you are

to tame the little unruly member that sets the course

of your destiny. If you have decided a vow of silence

is your only hope, read on.

Talking is absolutely essential to maintaining

effective relationships. As a child, your parents or

teachers may have drilled into you the proverb that

“silence is golden.” The truth is that this is a half-

quoted proverb. The complete saying is, “Speech is

silver, silence is golden.” While keeping one’s mouth

shut is a great virtue, effective communication is to

a relationship what oxygen is to the body. To say

“speech is silver” implies that speaking has signifi-

cant value. Silver was once a primary medium of

exchange, just as currency is today. It was used to

trade one value for another. When we talk, it should

be an exchange of valuable information. All the pre-

vious chapters of this book have highlighted various

types of negative communications that provided no

value. Let’s now focus on those instances in which

silence has no value.

Silence is not golden when one uses it as a pas-

sive, retaliatory means of expressing his anger or dis-

pleasure with a situation. In fact, such silence is a direct violation of our Lord’s command to confront

those who offend us.

Moreover if thy brother shall trespass against

thee, go and tell him his fault between thee

and him alone: if he shall hear thee, thou hast

gained thy brother ( : -‒).

Jesus is recommending pretty assertive behavior

in commanding us to take the initiative in addressing

an offense or a trespass. Trespassing is an unautho-

rized crossing of a boundary. Many times we may feel

we have been trespassed or wronged, but rather than

discussing the issue with the offender, we resort to

sulking and pouting. Women are especially prone to

keeping silent as most have been socialized to think

it is unladylike to be so direct as to say, “I was

offended by your actions. Please don’t do that again.”

Unfortunately, this lack of communication leaves

many offenders totally unaware that their behavior

has negatively affected us. Thus, they are more likely

to repeat the offense.

Silence is not golden when we refuse to defend

someone against unwarranted criticism or vicious

rumors. We cannot let our fear of alienation or

rejection cause us to allow slander and character

assassinations when we are well aware of facts to

the contrary. I recently found myself coming to the

defense of a person who I knew had accused me

falsely to several of my acquaintances. This could

have been my opportunity to “pay her back,” but I

knew she was innocent of the charges being made.

Without hesitation I told the accuser so. I felt that

it made God smile.

Silence is not golden when it results in us making

an undesirable decision by default. After all, silence

can indicate consent. Prayer was taken out of public

schools in the United States because the majority

kept quiet and did not protest. In the book of

Numbers, Moses reiterated that silence is indeed con-

sent. He gave instructions on how to deal with single

women who made vows:




When a young woman still living in her

father’s house makes a vow to the LORD or

obligates herself by a pledge and her father

hears about her vow or pledge but says

nothing to her, then all her vows and every

pledge by which she obligated herself will

stand. But if her father forbids her when he

hears about it, none of her vows or the

pledges by which she obligated herself will

stand; the LORD will release her because

her father has forbidden her (Numbers 30:3-5). He went on to instruct in verses 10-15 that the

same rules applied to a married woman. Her vow was to stand if her husband failed to protest it in a timely manner. His silence gave consent to her actions.




A Japanese proverb states,“Silent worms dig holes

in the walls.” To keep silent when one should be

speaking is a sure way to dig holes in your relation-

ships.




Today’s Affirmation

I will not keep silent when I should be

speaking

SURRENDER TO YAH

Psalm chapter 23










Today we are walking in: Surrender To Yah










Exo 25:6

Oil H8081 for the light, spices for anointing oil, H8081


and for sweet incense,


oil


Today we look to the word H8081 shemen--fat, oil;

fatness; olive oil


The Torah testifies...............



Exo 27:20

And thou shalt command the children of Israel, that they


bring thee pure oil H8081 olive beaten for the light, to cause


the lamp to burn always.




The prophets proclaim..................



Eze 16:9

Then washed I thee with water; yea, I throughly washed


away thy blood from thee, and I anointed thee with oil. H808






The writings bear witness...........................



1 Ki 17:12

And she said, As the LORD thy God liveth, I have not a cake,


but an handful of meal in a barrel, and a little oilH8081 in a


cruse: and, behold, I am gathering two sticks, that I may go


in and dress it for me and my son, that we may eat it, and die.







Surrender to Yah! He gives peace that passes understanding Fiveamprayer when you reach this stage, you begin to recognize that peace is not the absence of storms. It is the presence of Yahusha in the midst of them. You begin to understand that deliverance is not always the removal of pain, but the revelation of purpose within pain! that’s what Yahusha meant when he said in John 16:33 in this world, you will have tribulation but be a good cheer. I have overcome the world you are an overcome! not because the battle stopped! because you learn to stand! even while it raged, you have emerged from the fire without the smell of smoke. People will look at you and not understand how you survived, but if they could see what Yah was doing behind the scenes, how he covered you How he carried you! how he spoke to you when you felt forgotten! they would know it was grace all along. That’s why the chosen ones never boast in their strength they boast in his mercy because we know that if it had not been for the Yah, who is on our side, Psalm 24 and one we would’ve been consumed and so now the spirit of the Yah is saying to you Walk forward! you’ve been circling the same mountain long enough you’ve been rehearsing the same pain long enough! the wilderness was a classroom, but the class is over. It’s time to graduate into your promised land. That’s what Yah told Israel in Deuteronomy! you have compass this mountain long enough turn you northward. In other words stop going in circles stop living in yesterday‘s fear! stop feeding from the table of all disappointments! what broke you before cannot break you now!defeated you before cannot touch you now! you see when Yah delivers you. He doesn’t just remove you from the place of bondage. He removes the bondage from within you! Israel left Egypt physically but Egypt was still alive in their minds. Yah had to take them through a wilderness to detox their hearts from slavery that’s what he did in you. He had to remove your dependence on people! on systems!on approval until all that was left. Was your trust in him alone. The wilderness was where your faith was purified where your voice became his echo where your will became aligned with his will! now you are stepping into the promised place, not a land, flowing with milk and honey alone, but a land, flowing with wisdom and peace! You are entering a spiritual dimension where warfare no longer drains you but trains you! opposition no longer frightens you but confirms your assignment! because once you understand who you are in Yahusha , the enemy loses the power to define you by your wounds! you are not the rejected one! you are the refined one! you are not the forsaken one! you are the favored one! you are not the forgotten one! you are the handpicked one! that’s why the enemy attacked you so violently because he saw the evidence of divine selection Before you did. He saw the oil on you before you ever recognized it. He saw the anointing on your name before you understood your name carried authority. That’s why the warfare was intense because destiny was calling you and he was terrified of your awakening. Remember David he was anointed in secret before he was celebrated in public when Samuel 16:13 says then, Samuel took the horn of oil and anointed him in the midst of his brethren, and the spirit of Yah came upon David from that day forward From that day forward not from the day he sat on the throne from the day of anointing! the oil attracted opposition before it attracted opportunity so jealousy was not personal. It was prophetic. Every attack on David’s life was proof of what was on David’s life. The same is true for you. That’s why you went through what others could not survive! that’s why people who started with you could not continue with you! the call of Yah is not democratic. It is divine. He chooses who he will! who He wants and for what he will, he doesn’t ask permission from your critics to bless you. He doesn’t need votes to validate your Calling When he says you’re chosen every force in hell may scream unqualified! but heaven‘s word is scripture says in Romans, 11:29 for the gifts and calling of Yah are without repentance that means he never takes it back! even when you failed. He didn’t revoke your assignment Even when you doubted! he didn’t withdraw his promise because your mistakes were already factored into his plan! Grace was your safety net. Mercy was your covering! love was your restoration so congratulations it’s done. You have been forgiven, restored repositioned, and realigned. What used to try to define you! no longer has authority over you since chain is broken. Fear grip is gone! the guilt of the past cannot enter your new season. The blood of Yahusha has declared you free! as John 18:36 says if the Son therefore shall make you free you shall be free indeed that’s not poetic language that’s legal authority. You are no longer a prisoner to your past. You are a citizen of purpose. The chosen ones always carries scars, but those scars are not marks of shame! they are proof of survival! when Yahusha appeared to his disciples after the resurrection he did not hide his scars. He said look at my hands and my side. See you John 20:27 why because resurrection does not erase the evidence of pain it redeemed it. The scars prove that death tried!! but failed. It prove that the grave had power, but not final say! you too will carry evidence not of what broke you, but of what built you and I hear the spirit saying you are stepping into your resurrection moment! the stone has been rolled away. Season of silence has ended. You are no longer confined to the tomb of yesterday‘s mistakes! what you thought was an ending was actually a winning. What looked like a burial! was a planting. Yah buried the old you! so that resurrection could bring forth the new you. That’s why the pain was deep because purpose was being birthed! just as Lazarus heard the voice of Yahusha say come forth that John 11:43 your spirit is hearing that same command now come forth from fear! come forth from doubt! come forth from shame! come forth from every limitation that tried to keep you bound! the grave clothes are falling off! you’re about to walk out of the very place that once defined you! defeat you! and when you come forth the same people who witnessed your decay will witness your deliverance but remember chosen ones with new life comes new responsibility. You cannot carry the new wine in old wine skin. That’s why Yah allowed certain relationships and environments to fall away! They were not evil!

UNDERSTANDING THE WOMAN'S COMMUNICATION STYLE!!!

Genesis 2




Today we are walking in: Understanding The Woman's Communication Style!!!




Today we look to the word-PURPOSE- H6213 ’asah--to do, work, make, produce; to act, act with effect, effect








The Torah testifies...............

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The prophets proclaim..................






Daniel 6:17

And a stone was brought, and laid upon the mouth of the den; and the king sealed it with his own signet, and with the signet of his lords; that the purpose H6213 might not be changed concerning Daniel.









The writings bear witness...........................






Ecclesiates 3:1

To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose H6213 under the heaven:







UNDERSTANDING THE WOMAN’S COMMUNICATION STYLE!!!




I have seen too much not to know that the impression of a woman may be more valuable than the conclusion of an analytical reasoner.

~Sir Arthur Conan Doyle

(as Sherlock Holmes)




Yah made women and men very different from each other in the way they think, act and respond. These differences were designed to be complementary and not divisive. Adam and Eve originally lived in harmony with Yah, and so they were able to live in harmony with one another. They knew how to draw on each other’s strengths in communication for the betterment of them both. However, when humanity turned away for Yah’s purposes and broke relationship with Him, the lines of communication between males and females were cut or at least badly frayed. Thus, the differences that were originally designed to correspond to one another now often lead to misunderstandings and conflicts in marriage and in other relationships between women and men.




The chances are very good that you have experienced some of this misunderstanding and conflict firsthand! Handling differences of opinion and avoiding discord are common problems in relationships.




Consequently, how should you conduct yourself when you have been created to function differently from others with whom you live and work? How are you to live harmoniously with a husband or wife whom you love but who processes information and responds in a manner that is totally distinct from the way that you do? How do you make yourself understood and how do you communicate effectively? Most of all, how do you keep from trying to control another person or driving a wedge between yourself and others because of these differences?




How do you live harmoniously with someone who is different from you?




Many women and men struggle with these issues. The answer is to understand the purposes and designs of females and males that influence their communication styles. With this knowledge- and some patience and forgiveness- females and males who are seeking Yah’s redemptive purposes for their lives can communicate with one another effectively and happily. Perhaps Colassians 3:13 would be a good guiding principle for us as we deal with differences in communication: “Bear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another. Forgive as The Most High forgave you.” When women and men are considerate with one another, they have the basis on which they can develop the mutual love and honor that is crucial to lasting relationships.




Let us now look at the female’s communication style and contrast it with the male’s style, so that their different perspectives can be understood and appreciated. In this way, they may be brought into the complementary balance that was Yah’s original purpose for them. This balance will be achieved when females and males understand the strengths of each communication style and when they learn to communicate with each other according to the style that the other party can receive and understand.




The following are the basic natures and tendencies of females and males in communication. Of course, there will always be exceptions, depending on the individual. Yet within the variations, the general tendencies usually hold true.




The Woman Is An “Emotional Feeler”




Yah made the woman primarily as an “emotional feeler,” while He made the man chiefly as a “logical thinker.” First, let’s define these terms.




When I say that a woman is an emotional feeler, I am referring to the way in which she processes and thinks about the verbal and nonverbal communication she receives and perceives from the world around her. Because the woman is an incubator, she not only receives thoughts and ideas into her being but also transforms them as she processes them in her emotional, mental, and spiritual wombs. Her communication style reflects this process. When a woman receives information, she assesses it both mentally and emotionally at the same time. This is what makes her distinct from the male, who generally uses these functions separately. Why is this so?




Again, purpose determines design. Yah’s creation is remarkable. He actually designed the brains of females and males to be different. The neural pathways between the left and right hemispheres of a woman’s brain (both logical and emotional sides) are intact. This explains what often puzzles many men: how women are able to do multiple tasks at the same time, rather than having to focus on just one. The woman’s brain allows her to process facts and feelings almost simultaneously. Her emotions are with her all the time she is thinking, and this influences her perspective on the world around her as well as what is communicated to her.




In contrast, there are fewer nerves connecting the two hemispheres of the male’s brain, so that the logical and emotional sides are not as closely connected. Because of this, he basically needs to “shift gears” to move from his dominant logical side to his emotional side. This is why men, in general, think in terms of facts and in a linear fashion. They think like a straight line- the shortest distance between two points- which gives them the ability to see the goal (the vision) and to focus their energies on reaching it in the most straightforward way.




Women, on the other hand, tend to think more like a grid than a straight line. A woman’s brain is designed to pick up many details that men don’t “see,” things that go beyond the mere facts, such as the personalities, motivations, and feelings of both herself and others. She can perceive, analyze, evaluate, and see relationships between things all at the same time, like x, y, and z coordinates on a grid track a multiple of factors at the same time.




No one person, and no one gender, can look at the world with complete perspective. Therefore, Yah has designed things so that when the female-man and the male-man work together in unity, they can help one another to see a more balanced picture of life. They weren’t meant to understand the world and fulfill their dominion mandate in isolation from one another. For this reason, they have built-in ways of seeing the world that are of benefit to each other. Yah designed the woman to look at life through an emotional filter and the man to look at life through a logical filter. This does not mean that women do not use logic or that men do not have emotions. They each have a specific way of looking at the world.




The women can help the man see aspects of life, which, if overlooked or ignored, can become detours or potholes preventing him from reaching his goal or from reaching it as quickly as he might have. Her peripheral vision keeps him from being blindsided as he single-mindedly pursues his goals and objectives. On the other hand, the man’s linear thinking helps the woman not to become so enmeshed in many layers of her multidimensional thinking that she loses sight of the goal and never reaches it. Women and men need each other to chart the best course in life- one that enables them to reach their common goal but also experience their journey in the fuller, wisest, and most rewarding way possible.




Women often have been written off as foolish and inferior by men because they are expressive and show their emotions. A woman does not need to apologize for her emotions. Yah made her to feel. Males have assumed that their approach is better than the females’ approach, rather than complementary to it. They haven’t known or understood how and why the woman was created to be an emotional feeler.




Feeling and Thinking




What communication between women and men comes down to is feeling, thinking and self expression. Women and men both feel. Women and men both think. It is their manner of looking at the world and their self expression that makes the difference. A woman’s first reaction will generally be an emotional one followed by a thinking one. The man’s first reaction will be a thinking one, but he will also feel.




Because the woman was created to be more attuned emotionally, she feels everything from the way a person looks at her to what a person is saying or doing. This is a natural response for her, because she was made to feel the world around her and within her.




When we don’t understand purpose, we begin to misinterpret motives.




For example, a woman will be looking forward to a romantic evening with her husband that they had planned. She will prepare the food, set the table, arrange the flowers, maybe even polish the silverware, and then meet him at the door when he comes home. Her husband walks in, says hello, then strides right past her without noticing that she has dressed up. Instead of going to the table, he goes into the living room and says, “I’m going to have dinner in front of the TV while I watch the news.” His mind is still in work mode. He is intent on finding out any information that may affect his work and thus his ability to provide for his wife and family. However, because his wife doesn’t understand this, she is deeply hurt at his behavior; her first reaction is to feel that he is ungrateful, inconsiderate, and totally heartless. So she goes into the living room and approaches him angrily. He asks, “What’s the matter with you?”




At this point, she sees nothing complementary in the way he is designed. When we don’t understand purpose, we begin to misinterpret motives. It is this suspicion that creates conflict. This is why understanding purpose and design is so important. Both the woman’s reaction and the man’s reaction are related to the way they are made. She took his apparent indifference personally, while his mind was preoccupied with what he was thinking so that he did not notice what his wife was feeling.




When women and men understand that the female-man is an emotional feeler and that the male-man is a logical thinker, they can understand how to use their differences for the betterment of them both. The point is that the distinct differences between women and men are meant to be a help to them- not a hindrance or source of pain. One way of thinking and communicating is not better than the other way, and the inherent differences between the two are not a result of the Fall. The way women and men are designed is for their good. They just need to exercise patience and understanding and to value the other’s contribution.




Self-Expression




A woman can generally express her feelings and thoughts better than a man can. Most women love to talk because of Yah’s purpose for them. Yah designed the woman to communicate what is going on in her heart and mind. Because a man talks less than a woman does, he can sometimes give her the impression that he is not doing much thinking. Men think quite a bit; however, they often don’t express their thoughts, and when they do, they express only the most salient points because they are interested in facts rather than details.




This is why a man can walk into the house and bypass a beautifully set table his wife has prepared and not say anything about it. The man needs help in switching his focus from linear thinking about his goals and work to an appreciation of the sensory and emotional aspects of life. Then he can notice and appreciate what his wife has done for him. He also needs to learn to articulate what he appreciates and feels. The woman, on her part, needs to understand when the man walks by her table without saying anything, it doesn’t necessarily mean that he is being inconsiderate. It means that he is in a linear frame of mind, because this is his natural mindset.




Do Men Really Have Emotions?




Contrary to what many women believe, men do have emotions. They just don’t always express them- either because it is more difficult for them to or because their thinking rather than their emotions is at the forefront of what they are engaged in. It all goes back to purpose. Yah designed the man with the capacity to focus on the cold hard facts of a situation. Why? It is because he was created first, and in that position was designed to lead. A leader can’t afford to base his decisions on emotion, especially in a crisis.




Remember, we are talking about general tendencies. This doesn’t mean that a woman can’t lead. However, when she does, she often has to balance her emotions with the facts in order to make the best decisions. Moreover, her instincts can serve her well in this capacity.




She is feeling; he is thinking.




I have observed that the way a man acts when he receives information from a woman can make her angry. Suppose she says, “The mortgage is due, and we’re behind in our payments.” He says, “Don’t worry about it. I’ll take care of it.” His wife says, “But you don’t understand what I said. We don’t have any money, and they’re coming to get the furniture!” He replies, “I know. I said I’ll take care of it.” The woman phones her mother, cousin, and aunt to tell them about her situation, but the man seems almost nonchalant about it. The woman could interpret his response to mean that he doesn’t care. Yet all this time, he’s been thinking about what he’s going to do. She is feeling, he is thinking. He is formulating all kinds of schemes in his head about how he can get the money. Since a female is an emotional feeler, she is generally led or motivated by her emotions, even though she also think. Yet a male is led or motivated by his thinking because of his leadership and provider responsibilities.




There are times when a woman isn’t feeling what a man is thinking, and a man is not thinking what a woman is feeling. When this happens, the lack of communication between them compounds their frustration with one another. Men need to learn to tell women what they are thinking and feeling. Again, when the man walks past the beautifully laid dinner table, he has to remember to express his feelings. At the same time, the woman shouldn’t consider his unemotional response as being either irresponsible or inconsiderate.




A Perfect Balance




The man generally bases his thoughts and actions on what is logical; he factually analyzes everything. This is both a strength and a weakness, because emotions and insights are very important to a person’s functioning in the world. Therefore, the man needs someone who can balance his logic with feeling. Otherwise, he’ll go through life with merely a cold, logical outlook. He needs someone who can show him the emotional side of life, who can remind him of his need to be sensitive to others. I appreciate Yah’s design. He designed things in such a way that females and males need one another.




The female was created to help the man in that, whatever the male lacks, the female has. The female’s emotional feeling will balance the male’s logical thinking. Many women don’t understand how important they are to the men in their lives. What the male-man lacks, the female-man possesses. The reverse is also true. This principle is based on Yah’s purpose. Whatever Yah drew out of Adam to make Eve, the man needs in order to be complete. There are qualities in the woman that Yah took out of the man at creation that a man needs.

THE INDISCREET TONGUE

The Indiscreet Tongue

Discretion will protect you,

and understanding will guard you.

Proverbs 2:11




After the great flood that destroyed most of the

earth, Noah planted a vineyard. One day he got car-

ried away and drank too much wine. His son Ham

discovered him in his tent—drunk and naked.

Scripture tells us that Ham “saw his father’s nakedness and told his two brothers outside” (Genesis 9:22). Exercising more discretion than Ham, his brothers would not even look on their father, but backed into the tent and covered him with a garment. Their discretion was a sign of their maturity. One who is discreet shows prudence and wise self restraint in speech and behavior—and always reaps a positive consequence.




Indiscretion can be costly. Some subject matters should simply be off limits for discussion. You would be wise to never discuss your salary or bonus—especially with other company personnel. Your sex life should also be off limits as an item of discussion with a non-counseling outsider.





Ham’s indiscretion proved costly for him. When

Noah sobered up, he realized his shame and was

sorely displeased with the manner in which Ham had

handled the situation. Noah cursed him and doomed

his descendents to slavery.




Have you ever found out something about a

leader or other prominent person and could not

refrain from telling someone? If God has trusted you

enough to reveal someone’s nakedness or sin, have

you ever considered that you were not to “see” and

“tell” but rather to cover that nakedness with discretion and intercession?




Having grown up in church,I have seen the nakedness of many leaders.God has often reminded me that He was trusting me not to “cover up,” but to “cover with.” It can be a very uncomfortable position. God may even call you to confront the individual regarding his or her wrongdoing. He did so with Nathan the prophet, who confronted David about his adultery with Bathsheba and his subsequent murder of her husband to cover it up (2 Samuel 12).Whatever God mandates, do it His way. A public revelation is not always necessary as it can cause irreparable damage to the body of Hamachiach. David’s sin with Bathsheba never became the topic of a public scandal. However, David suffered the consequences through his family and other areas of his life. A leader’s punishment is God’s business.




Caution! If you serve in a position of authority,

such as a member of a board of directors, then you

have a responsibility to deal with ungodly behavior

in a leader. Confront with love and compassion. No

one is perfect, and no one has 20-20 vision on himself. Remember that. God may someday show someone your nakedness. Pray that it will be handled with wisdom. Plant the seed of discretion now.




Today’s Affirmation:

My discretion will protect me and

understanding will guard me.

WHAT ARE YOU PRAYING FOR?

1 Samuel chapter 2










Today we are walking in: What Are You Praying For?










Habakkuk 1:11




Then shall his mind change H2015, and he shall pass over, and offend, imputing this his power unto his god.










CHANGE






















Today we look to the word- CHANGE- H2015- haphak- a primitive root; to turn about or over; by implication, to change, overturn, return, pervert:—become, change, come, be converted, give, make (a bed), overthrow overturn), perverse, retire, tumble, turn (again, aside, back, to the contrary, every way).




























The Torah Testifies…………….










Genesis 35:2




Then Jacob said unto his household, and to all that werewith him, Put away the strange gods that are among you, and be clean, and change H2015 your garments:




Leviticus 27:10




He shall not alter it, nor change H2015 it, a good for a bad, or a bad for a good: and if he shall at all change H2015 beast for beast, then it and the exchange thereof shall be holy.







Leviticus 27:33




He shall not search whether it be good or bad, neither shall he change H2015 it: and if he change H2015 it at all, then both it and the change H2015 thereof shall be holy; it shall not be redeemed.




























The Prophets Proclaim………







Jeremiah 2:36




Why gaddest thou about so much to change H2015 thy way? thou also shalt be ashamed of Egypt, as thou wast ashamed of Assyria.










Zechariah 3:4




And he answered and spake unto those that stood before him, saying, Take away the filthy garments from him. And unto him he said, Behold, I have caused thine iniquity to pass from thee, and I will clothe thee with change H2015 of raiment.










Malachi 3:6




For I am the LORD, I change H2015 not; therefore ye sons of Jacob are not consumed.






















The Writings witness……………







Job 14:14




If a man die, shall he live again? all the days of my appointed time will I wait, till my change H2015 come.










Psalm 102:26




They shall perish, but thou shalt endure: yea, all of them shall wax old like a garment; as a vesture shalt thou change H2015 them, and they shall be changed:










Proverbs 24:21




My son, fear thou the LORD and the king: and meddle not with them that are given to change H2015:












Before Yah ever uses a woman publicly, he wounds her privately before he releases her voice he reshaped her identity, and before he puts a crown on her head, he places a cross on her back! woman of strength! Let me ask you… why does it hurt when you’re the one who praise the most? Why does silence answer your cries why do doors close when you sacrificed everything because you are not being punished you are being processed. Yah does not use what he has not first broken not to destroy but to rebuild for his glory. You’re not forgotten you’re not invisible you’re in divine surgery and heaven does its deepest work behind closed doors. Let me tell you something that religion won’t always say Yah does not anoints the comfortable. He anoints the crushed if you’re going through crushing disappointment isolation or betrayal, you are a candidate for divine elevational through Him. Yah allowed Ruth entire world to collapse before she stood in the lineage of Yahusha , and actually in the Bible Ester was an orphan before she became a queen and Mary was scandalized before she became honored every great woman Yah used he broke! first let me tell you something that religious tradition may not have taught you Yah will often strip you of the name you answered to, so you can finally respond to the one he called you! Your identity is not what the world gave you. It’s what heaven whispered over your life before you ever had a womb or a wrinkle before you were betrayed before the label was attached before the heartbreak before the reputation before the mistake but life has a way of slapping false names on your soul! You’re not enough too loud too broken too late and the tragedy is we believe them we believe them, but when Yah wants to use a woman not casually but mightily he first breaks everything that has false about her. He allows her to walk through seasons where she can’t perform where the applause stops with the titles don’t matter when the makeup comes off and the masks no longer stick why because he’s not building a platform He’s building a foundation and foundations are never seen, but they carry everything. Let me be real with you, this is not the glamorous part of the process. This is the season where you look in the mirror and don’t even recognize yourself. The season when the phone doesn’t ring and the people who you carried suddenly don’t remember your number And you ask Yah what did I do wrong but the question isn’t what you did wrong is what Yah is doing right is breaking what you built in your own strength to rebuild what will stand through the fire! look at the life of Leah she was unloved by Jacob overlooked by man, but Yah saw her. She named her son’s based on her desire for approval, maybe now my husband will love me, but by the time she birthed Judah, she said this time I will praise the Lord! Her Identity shifted by changing your situation, but by redefining her source that’s what the breaking does it disconnects you from the need for external validation. I don’t think this is just personal. This is prophetic for the community because when women walk in borrowed identities entire generation suffer, but when a woman rises in Him, Yah give a name she doesn’t just change her life she becomes a compass for her daughters covering for her sons and a voice for those who thought silence was survival so if you’re in the season of undoing, what used to work doesn’t anymore if you’re standing in the ruins of who you used to be Don’t run you’re not falling apart you’re being introduced, and when Yah is done the same people who couldn’t recognize your pain won’t be able to ignore your power. You’re not what they called you. You are not what think! you are not your worst day! you are what heaven had in mind and it’s breaking the line to reveal the woman and when you rise from this, don’t answer to anything less silence is not the absence of Yah. It is often the strategy of God when Yah isolate a woman it is not because he has forgotten her. It is because he is trying to separate her from noise so she can finally recognize his voice, but the danger is if you’re addicted to noise to people to approval too busyness to performance Then isolation feels like punishment, but it’s not punishment its preparation every time Yah wanted to do something extra extraordinary through a woman he didn’t start with a microphone he started with the wilderness. He took her out of her comfort zone not to abandon her, but to retrain her attention because Yah is not interested in competing for your focus when he isolate you he’s removing the background music of distraction. He’ll dry up your phone calls. He’ll interrupt your rhythms. He’ll even allow people to misunderstand you not because he’s cruel but because he’s jealous for your undivided heart ask yourself this why is the season so quiet right now? Why did the doors stop opening? Why are the invitations no longer coming could it be because he’s speaking but he doesn’t shout Yah whispers when he wants intimacy. He removes the crowd when he wants clarity and sometimes the greatest miracle is not the one everyone sees. It’s the one that happens when you finally hear him for yourself! let me tell you something about real women of impact they are trained in private they are carved in caves, not in conferences. They are built in the back rooms of tears, prayer, and long nights of not knowing what’s next and still trusting anyway! Yah doesn’t isolate to punish! isolate to insulate because when your assignment gets heavy, you need a strength that can’t be taught by people only by presence think about a woman like Hagar she was discarded cast out into the desert, but it was there in the place of rejection that she saw Yah and heard her cry!

think about a woman like Hagar she was discarded cast out into the desert, but it was there in the place of rejection that she saw Yah and said you are the Yah who sees me The well wasn’t found in pharaoh Palace. It was revealed in the wilderness and the truth is some of you would never have discovered who you are if he hadn’t taken them away if he hadn’t dried up the room if he hadn’t closed the door you have found in the stillness. This is not just personal. It’s prophetic for the community because when a woman learns to hear Yah, without a middleman, she becomes dangerous to the enemy, she can no longer be manipulated by fear or guilt or control. She doesn’t wait for permission to obey. She walks with conviction not just emotion! so if you are in that silent place don’t rush to escape stay in the tension let him tune your ears again let him silence the voices of doubt of comparison of fail obligation because when this season is over, you will not just hear differently you will speak with authority, and when you speak, it will not be noise. It will be a sound that shakes atmospheres sound that wakes up dry bones a sound that was born in silence but destined to break! change is not the enemy of destiny. immaturity is there are moments in life when it feels like Yah is not moving you pray and the heavens stay quiet you fast and the situation doesn’t shift you prepare, and yet nothing breaks open, and if you’re not careful, you begin to believe that Yah has overlooked you! Passed you by! changed his mind! but hear me he hasn’t changed his mind. He’s changing your muscles because what you’re carrying has weight it’s not lite and Yah will not let you walk into a room. You don’t have the strength to stand in. You think the waiting is punishment, but it’s actually divine conditioning. Heaven doesn’t train you for convenience trains you for endurance before Yah places you in position! Yah will place you in a process that builds the internal character to sustain what’s coming because elevation without preparation is a set up for collapse. We live in a generation addicted to acceleration, fast food, fast and fast answers fast breakthroughs, but the kingdom of Yah doesn’t run on shortcuts it runs on seed time and harvest and between seed and harvest is when most people give up not because they went cold, but because they were conditioned, let me show you the strategy of Yah when a woman has been chosen for something greater. The first thing he strengthens is not her platform. It’s her patience. You can’t raise nations. If you can’t wait on timing you can’t carry justice. If you collapse under pressure you can’t speak to systems if you’re still looking for someone to affirm your voice! Sometimes Yah delays what you ask for not because you’re not ready to receive but because you’re not yet able to release! you’re still clinging to how you thought that you look! you’re still negotiating with comfort you’re still addicted to control, and so the delay becomes the gym where you developed spiritual stamina! Every unanswered prayer is another rap. Every closed door is another round every long night is resistance training for your soul and don’t forget this when you skip the process you miss the strength. This message is bigger than one woman’s breakthrough. This is about communities, families, daughters, watching their mother’s neighborhoods that have never seen spiritual strength modeled with Grace! What happens when women learn to wait well They don’t just produce for the moment they build for the future they give birth to legacy not just moments of success. They don’t just respond to trends they shape culture so if you’re in the hallway of delay and the doors still haven’t opened. I need you to lift your head and stop measuring time And start measuring growth because when Yah finally opens the way you won’t walk through like a desperate woman you walk through like a discipline warrior and when you arrive, no one will be able to say it was luck. They’ll know she was built in the weight. Pain is not the enemy! pain is often the evidence that you were on the edge of something eternal let me say something that may shake your theology. Yah will use what the enemy meant to destroy you not to develop you but the design the vision you never would’ve seen without some of the clearest direction in life does not come in the moments of peace! It comes when everything collapses!

Only light left is the one Yah lit inside you! pain is the birthplace of clarity ask the woman who lost her job and discovered her voice ask the widow who buried her husband and found her assignment. Ask the girl who grew up without a father and became a mother to those who had none. The greatest movements in history were not born out of comfort they were born out of suffering, and when Yah wants to raise a woman to see further, he lets her feel deep. The womb vision is not strategy. It is sorrow! sorrow that breaks your pride sorrow that empties your dependence on human validation sorrow that silence its every counterfeit identity and all that’s left is truth, and in that silence, Yah begins to speak. You don’t need to run from your pain. You need to listen to it. Pain is a prophet! It reveals what’s broken in the world and what heaven wants to heal through you. It tells you what matters it tells you who you call to stand for it tells you where Yah wants to aim your life like a weapon but the problem is we’ve written entire cultures. To run from pain! numb it medicated hide it under make up on Instagram captions but what if the very thing you’ve been trying to escape is the compass to your next Assignment! Your pain is not just personal is prophetic. It’s not just about what happened to you it’s about what Yah is getting ready to do through you. You may have been abused, but now you carry inside for those who are still silent you may have been overlooked, but now you see others with the compassion that can be taught you may have wept through nights no one saw, but now you speak with a way that can’t be ignored, and we need you not the polished version not the airbrushed survivor. We need the real you the woman who bled but didn’t break the woman who is not afraid to show her scars because she knows that scars. Don’t say ive been defeat they signify healing. The community doesn’t need more celebrities we need healers Women who have been through hell and still carry heaven in their eyes women who know what it feels like to walk through betrayal, but choose to mentor instead of isolate women who refuse to let bitterness win who turned their wounds into well for others to drink from so don’t despise your pain. Don’t curse the season that crushed you That pain is not where your story ends. That’s what your vision begins. You didn’t survive just to sit, you survive to see, and now it’s time to build what only your tears could’ve revealed. There was a breaking that feels violent, but it is holy and Yah desires to release the deepest part of you. He does not have the surface. He applies pressure Real inconvenient so rattling pressure because what’s most valuable inside of you is not accessible when everything is easy what makes you dangerous to darkness what makes you force for change is not on the outside is the hidden oil within and oil does not flow without crushing. We love the idea of anointing, but we run from the process we want the impact without the extraction, but Heaven doesn’t operate by comfort. It operates by design, and Yah designed you like the olive useful, beautiful, but only potent after the press when Yah start squeezing your life Relationship shift finances dry up familiar rhythms are disrupted and you start asking why now why me but the real question is what is he trying to release from me that I couldn’t give him voluntarily there is oil inside of you that your comfort could never unlock look at your life. The moment you became most effective wasn’t after applause. It was after adversity you spoke clearer after betrayal, lead stronger after abandonment you loved deeper after loss Because pain pressed out the distractions the assumptions, the masks, and what was left was undeniably authentic, and Yah said now I can use that but makes you powerful is not what you rehearsed is what you’ve survived not what you curated but what cost you something and listen this isn’t just with the stage or the pulpit! This is for your family your Neighbourhood, your generation because when a woman walks through the fire and still carries peace when she’s crushed but remains kind when she loses everything but still chooses faith that woman becomes a living altar, a place where people see that Yah still meets with a broken and uses them fully, but you must stop despise in the pressure. You must stop praying away every process sometimes the very thing you’re asking Yahto remove is the instrument he’s using to release your oil and when that oil flows lives are restored, children are covered. Cities are shaken and community. Finally see what heaven smells like. The aroma of a life surrendered not sanitized a life pressed not performed so yes it hurts. Yes, you’re tired. Yes, the weight feels unfair but don’t waste the press what’s coming out of? You is not weakness. It’s oil And oil. Doesn’t just anoint people. It heals them when Yah breaks a woman. He’s not trying to reduce her he’s trying to multiply her impact her! you think this season is about you. Your survival your healing your breakthrough but listen to me carefully. You are not the final destination you are a bridge to what Yah is doing in you he plans to do through you. This pain isn’t just about your process, it’s about the people on the other side of your obedience. There are other lives that are waiting on your healing. There are stories that are locked inside your scars. You’ve been thinking when will I be free!

That is drowning and identity, confusion, emotional numbness, and spiritual decay. A generation where women are often told to be smaller quieter prettier safer, but never stronger but here’s the truth. We don’t need more women who have the right answers. We need women who have real stories women who cared the fragrance of fire, but the gentleness of grace women who are not ashamed of where they’ve come from because they know that what tried to kill them, gave them keys! Every tear you cried, give you access every night you didn’t sleep gave discernment! every betrayal gave you the power to detect what is false and now that you’re standing not perfect but whole it’s time to take what you’ve gained and pour it into others. You’re not being called to compete. You’re being called to cover! It’s a difference cover the ones who are still bleeding cover the ones who don’t have the language for their trauma cover the ones who are about to give up because you didn’t! that’s the power of being broken by you’re healing becomes contagious. You become an answer to someone else’s silent prayer. You become a mentor without a title, a pastor without a pulpit a deliver in the grocery store in your home in the street in a conversation, no one else paid attention to Because healing isn’t always loud sometimes it sounds like I’ve been there too, and you’re not crazy. Yah doesn’t need your perfection. He needs your surrender. It is women who will stop hiding behind shame and start walking in authority. Not because they know it all because they’ve been through enough to know he is faithful. This is not the time to shrink. This is not the season to disqualify yourself because of your past Because the world is not waiting for another celebrity. The world is waiting for a woman who’s been through the fire and didn’t lose her voice, and if you dare to stand in the fullness of who you are, your life just doesn’t inspire it will heal. It will awaken. It will set the captives free to know of destiny. What will you do with the breaking? You’ve heard the cold. You felt the pressure. You’ve walked through the fire this wasn’t random. This wasn’t punishment. This was preparation for release. Yah didn’t break you to bury you. He broke you build you back indestructible not so you could sit in silence, but so you could stand in boldness so you could walk into rooms as an answer not just as another opinion you are not what try to destroy you. You are what you survived! you are what remain when everything else left You are what Yah kept because there’s still something he’s getting ready to release through you to speak! build! heal! lead! So cry if you have to, but don’t stop don’t let the breaking scare you let it remind you he’s getting ready to use you like never before your community needs you your daughters are watching your city is searching And have a saying that she’s ready. Good luck on your journey and may your scars speak louder than your silence ever did thank you for surviving. Thank you for staying when you wanted to run thank you for becoming the woman. The world didn’t see coming. The breaking wasn’t the end. It was your beginning! ALL PRAISES TO THE MOST HIGH YAH!!