THE BETRAYING TONGUE

The Betraying Tongue

A gossip betrays a confidence,

but a trustworthy man keeps a secret.

Proverbs 11:13







Betrayal is a more blatant act than gossip. A

gossip may not necessarily harbor any ill will toward

his victim; however, a betrayer divulges information

in breach of a confidence. He gives information to

the “enemy” and commits relational treason by vio-

lating the trust someone has placed in him. This

ungodly use of the tongue is designed to hurt or dis-

advantage.

Judas was able to betray Yahusha with very little

effort because he was familiar with His comings and

goings.

Now Judas, who betrayed him, knew the

place, because Yahusha had often met there with

his disciples (John 18:2).




Judas used his inside knowledge of Yahusha’ habits

to hurt Him. Later, his betrayal caused Judas such

self-loathing that he committed suicide. Such an act

must surely eat away at one’s self-esteem and sense

of dignity. Have you ever betrayed someone’s con-

fidence? Be honest. Why did you do it? What was

your payoff? Did you gain some advantage because

of it? Were you feeling envious at the time? Was there

an unresolved conflict between the two of you? Have

you repented for this sin?

On the other hand, has someone betrayed your

confidence? Were you reaping what you had sown?

What valuable lesson did you learn from the inci-

dent? Have you released the offender in your heart

and no longer desire vengeance? If not, you are still

bound to him and he is still controlling your life. Let

it go. God saw the betrayal before it happened and

while it was happening. Since He chose not to inter-

vene, accept it as part of His sovereign plan for your

life. Learn from the burn, but forgive to live. Remind

yourself that in the final analysis, the incident will

work together for your good because you love God

and are called according to His purpose (Romans 8:28).




Decide today to strive to be a trustworthy person



whom others can depend upon to guard their secrets. If you are blessed to have a trustworthy friend, thank God for such a rare jewel.




Today’s Affirmation:

I am a trustworthy person and can be

depended upon to keep a confidence.