Monday, April 18, 2016

The Principles of Protocol: Honor part 1

1 Kings 3

We are walking in today:  The Principles of Protocol:  Honor part 1

Teachingg from the book:  The Principles Of The Protege; Discovering The Pathway To Success, by Dr. Francisco I. Victa III
 
Witness in order  throughout the Bible:  G5010 taxis an arranging, arrangement, order, a fixed succession observing a fixed time, due or right order, orderly condition

1 Kings 3:14
More than that, if you will live according to my ways, obeying my laws and mitzvot like your father David, I will give you a long life.” - CJB

#3513. kabad or kabed
Strong's Concordance
Honor:
kabad or kabed: to be heavy, weighty, or burdensome
Original Word: כָּבַד
Part of Speech: Verb
Transliteration: kabad or kabed
Phonetic Spelling: (kaw-bad')
Short Definition: honored
Word Origin
a prim. root
Definition
to be heavy, weighty, or burdensome

pro ·to·col
ˈprōdəˌkôl,ˈprōdəˌkäl/
noun
1. The official procedure or system of rules governing affairs of state or diplomatic occasions.
"protocol forbids the prince from making any public statement in his defense"

2. The original draft of a diplomatic document, especially of the terms of a treaty agreed to in conference and signed by the parties.

The dictionary defines protocol as “a code of correct conduct.” Mike Murdock elaborates saying, “Protocol is the acceptable and appropriate conduct and behavior in a specific environment. It is the right way to act in a certain situation.” First understand that, being a protégé has its own protocol in “code of correct conduct.” To be a protégé is a privilege and not a right!  This is a very important point that must be remembered--when lost or failed to be realized is a great detriment to the mentor/protege relationship.  A privilege must be preserved--understanding the protocol of the protégé will allow you to remain and progress in your position.

Keys of the Protocol of the Protégé:

1. Protocol can give you access to great people.
2. Protocol gives you rules for entering a place and situation.
3. Protocol presents you from overstepping your boundaries.

A. It is not proper protocol to correct your mentor.
B. Go where you are not invited.
C. Attempt to elevate yourself over your mentor.
D. Give un-requested advice to your mentor.
E. To enter your mentor’s presence out of dress code.
F. Speak of privileged, private information about your mentor to others.
G. To dishonor your mentor in anyway 4. Protocol involves celebrating your mentor’s achievements.

65 Truths about Honor
Even though I grew up in the church, I did not see people give honor to their leaders and mentors. I saw them give respect but not honor. There is a difference. Honor is natural to the protocol of the protégé. Because honor is an endangered practice in our culture today, the act of giving honor to a mentor is often seen as “pursuing man,” excessive, and even unbiblical. This perspective comes because we have strayed so far from the protocol of honor. Is honoring a mentor unbiblical? Let’s go to the source of scripture to find the answers:

1) Honor, from men, is seen as a gift from God .
1 Kings 3:13
“And I have also given thee that which thou hast not asked, both riches, and honour: so that there shall not be any among the kings like unto thee all thy days.”

2) Honoring a mother and father enhances and lengthens life.
Exodus 20:12
“Honour thy father and thy mother: that thy days may be long upon the land which the LORD thy God giveth thee.” 
Deuteronomy 5:16 “Honour thy father and thy mother, as the LORD thy God hath commanded thee; that thy days may be prolonged, and that it may go well with thee, in the land which the LORD thy God giveth thee.”

3) Honor is commanded to be given to the elderly.
Leviticus 19:32
“Thou shalt rise up before the hoary head, and honour the face of the old man, and fear thy God: I am the LORD.”

4) Honor is a need that, when given, will come back to you in your own life .
1 Samuel 2:30
“Wherefore the LORD God of Israel saith, I said indeed that thy house, and the house of thy father, should walk before me for ever: but now the LORD saith, Be it far from me; for them that honour me I will honour, and they that despise me shall be lightly esteemed.”

5) Honor is the hidden request of kings and those in authority .
1 Samuel 15:30
“Then he said, I have sinned: yet honour me now, I pray thee, before the elders of my people, and before Israel, and turn again with me, that I may worship the LORD thy God.”

6) When honor is not given from those close to you, it will be sought from those far away from you .
2 Samuel 6:22
“And I will yet be more vile than thus, and will be base in mine own sight: and of the maidservants which thou hast spoken of, of them shall I be had in honour.”

7) Honor is evidence of excellence .
1 Chronicles 16:27
“Glory and honour are in his presence; strength and gladness are in his place.”

8) Honor is given when you discern the heart of an individual and not merely their actions.
1 Chronicles 17:18
“What can David speak more to thee for the honour of thy servant? for thou knowest thy servant.”

9) Honor is evidence of a life of purpose .
1 Chronicles 29:28
“And he died in a good old age, full of days, riches, and honour: and Solomon his son reigned in his stead.”

10) Honor is to be given to those who stand up for what is right and make godly decisions .
2 Chronicles 17:5
“Therefore the LORD established the kingdom in his hand; and all Judah brought to Jehoshaphat presents; and he had riches and honour in abundance.”

11) Honor comes after humility.
2 Chronicles 32:26-29
26 “Notwithstanding Hezekiah humbled himself for the pride of his heart, both he and the inhabitants of Jerusalem, so that the wrath of the LORD came not upon them in the days of Hezekiah. 27 And Hezekiah had exceeding much riches and honour: and he made himself treasuries for silver, and for gold, and for precious stones, and for spices, and for shields, and for all manner of pleasant jewels; 28 Storehouses also for the increase of corn, and wine, and oil; and stalls for all manner of beasts, and cotes for flocks. 29 Moreover he provided him cities, and possessions of flocks and herds in abundance: for God had given him substance very much.”

12) Honor is evidence that legacy has been bestowed.
2 Chronicles 32:33
“And Hezekiah slept with his fathers, and they buried him in the chiefest of the sepulchres of the sons of David: and all Judah and the inhabitants of Jerusalem did him honour at his death. And Manasseh his son reigned in his stead.”

13) Honor was the original position of man.
Psalm 8:5
“For thou hast made him a little lower than the angels, and hast crowned him with glory and honour.”

14) Honor should be the standard of God’s house.
Psalm 26:8
“LORD, I have loved the habitation of thy house, and the place where thine honour dwelleth.”

15) Honor is given through words of appreciation. ( Psalm 66:2; 71:8)

16) Honor is promised by God as a blessing to those who trust in Him. (Psalm 91:15)

17) Honor is a sign that God is among us. (Psalm 96:6)

18) Honor can be displayed even when it’s not given. (Psalm 104:1)

19) Honor is given to those who have helped others in a time of need. (Psalm 112:9)

20) Honor is demonstrated by financial gifts. (Proverbs 3:9)

21) Honor is evidence of wisdom. (Proverbs 3:16)

22) Honor is evidence of promotions.  (Proverbs 4:8)

23) Honor can be lost, but it will be given to someone. (Proverbs 5:9)

24) Honor is often associated with prosperity. (Proverbs 8:18)

25) Honor is promised to a gracious woman. (Proverbs 11:16)

26) Honor comes after a season of humility and obscurity. (Proverbs 18:12; 29:3)

27) Honor is given to men of peace. (Proverbs 20:3)

28) Honor is given to those who dare to discover and are eager to learn. (Proverbs 25:2)

29) Honor will never be understood and appreciated by fools. (Proverbs 26:1)

30) Honor given to a wrong person will cause injury and pain. (Proverbs 26:8)

31) Honor can be the means in which you conduct your life. (Proverbs 31:25)

32) Honor can be sabotaged by small mistakes and earthly errors (Ecc. 10:1)

We have scripture upon scripture. On the importance of honoring versus respect in the kingdom and how much Yahweh places value in honor in the kingdom. The the many examples of honoring mentors and people who are placed in our lives that have honor and authority. Which brings blessings according to the scriptures. Which after this study should change our understanding of honor versus respect. The difference respect is demanded, while honor is given.  To hear this again click here.

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